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Looking for a serene resort in which to relax? A romantic getaway? A fun and fabulous hotel with high energy? Or a place to catch some sun on your buns?

Here’s the thing about boutique hotels in Palm Springs: they’re each so very different. 

So, how do you choose the one that best suits you? Here’s a tip:

Use PSPSH’s vibe sorter to increase your odds of landing in the perfect boutique hotel or resort. There are six vibes to choose from:

Stay in Style: Perfectly Designed Palm Springs Hotels: Palm Springs boutique hotels are known worldwide for their attention to style and design. So, if you’re intrigued by staying in a well-appointed hotel that places an emphasis on architectural flair, there’s a hotel for you. Palm Springs is a design hot spot, and modernism aficionados flock here year-round to stay in some of the finest and most authentic examples of desert-modern and mid-century design. But there are also prime examples of historical Art Deco, Mediterranean, and contemporary design. 

Les Cactus, a laid-back escape

Utterly Tranquil:  Forget the party scene — these hotels cultivate serene quiet environments where social interaction is minimal and staff can usually help you book an on-site massage or a delivered dinner from one of Palm Springs’ many amazing restaurants (some even have restaurants on site!). These hotels are small and intimate…just perfect for that writing, meditation, or personal rejuvenation retreat you long for. 

Do Not Disturb: These romantic Palm Springs hotels offer the ideal destinations for that anniversary celebration, honeymoon, or first — or 100th — getaway. These dreamy properties offer exquisite gardens and intimate spaces with plenty of comfort and indulgence for every beautifully love-filled vacation.

Korakia, one of the most romantic hotels in Palm Springs

Fabulous & Fun Palm Springs Hotels: Sometimes you just have to cut loose! These hotels are known for supporting their guests’ desire for a playful, unforgettable Palm Springs experience. They’re ideal for a bachelor party, a girl’s weekend away, or a reunion with college friends or family. Most of these hotels have less than a dozen rooms — perfect for property buy outs — so you and your party can have the whole place to your party-happy selves. 

Nakedly Confident: Clothing-Optional Desert Resorts: If you love a safe, body-positive environment that welcomes the sun on your skin, you’ll be in your element at these clothing-optional Palm Springs small hotels. Many of these clothing-optional resorts cater to gay men, but a few welcome the ladies and couples, too. 

The Santiago, a men’s clothing-optional hotel.

Culturally Queer: LGBTQ Palm Springs Hotels are Here  The gay community put Palm Springs back on the map. From the bearlicious to the salacious, fit for a queen or perfectly serene, you’ll find an extraordinary concentration of jaw-dropping resorts in Palm Springs that cater to gay men (but also welcome their sisters and allies). Find out why Palm Springs has been a desirable destination for the LGTBQ community for more than five decades.

Did you know that Palm Springs is internationally famous? Well, it is. Since 2006, people from all over the planet have been coming to Palm Springs during the month of February for the banging party we call Modernism Week. It’s like the United Nations all up in here.  

Before the big event, Modernism Week holds a four-day preview in October called Modernism Fall Preview (a.k.a. Mini-Mod Week), running from October 14 through 17. It’s jam-packed with loads to do — over 50 events!  

Modernism Week and Mini-Mod Week are so popular the best events sell out the same day they go on sale. So unless some fabulous bit of wizardry transpires (it might, Palm Springs is magical), forget about Sunnylands and Frank Sinatra’s Twin Palms Estate Tour. There’s plenty left to see though, from significant mid-century modern home tours to architectural double decker bus tours. 

You can dress as you like, but a lot of people choose to pull out their pedal pushers and fedoras — whatever it takes to achieve that retro look. During Mini-Mod Week, the town takes on that old-timey feel of the ’50s and ’60s.

There are some cool cocktail-style events, but those sell out pretty fast. One of my very favorite supper clubs, PS Underground, has a brand new show for this year called Beatnik. Hurry and book, their shows are always outstanding. 

Even if you miss out on your favorite events, there’s still the main event at the Palm Springs Convention Center where you can browse everything mid-century modern, including art, furniture, and lighting. You can find a list of exhibitors here. 

If you’re the curious type like me, or a little iffy on modernism, this article breaks down mid-century modern art for you. The same with architecture here. 

Friday night is the big opening night party for the Modernism Show and Sale. Tickets are $75 in advance and $85 at the door. A purchase to the opening night party gives you access to the show on Saturday and Sunday. 

Skipping the party? (You’re gonna say “no” to a party?!) You can still buy a ticket for Saturday and Sunday that will cost you one Jackson (soon to be Tubman!) and gets you in both days so you can shop ‘til you bop later on that evening. 

Whether you do or don’t plan on going to the Modernism Week preview, but love the vibe of the mid-mod experience, we have mid-century modern hotels for the complete experience. There are 25 of them, all with great amenities — learn more about these fabulous spots here. 


The Purple Room, a Rat Pack-inspired supper club, has some of the finest entertainment in town. Here are the weekend shows during Modernism Preview:  

October 14: Sharon Sills (every Thursday) 

October 15: Branden and James — vocals and cello performing the Lady Gaga songbook 

October 16: Branden and James  — vocals and cello performing the Lady Gaga songbook 

October 17: The Judy Show (my favorite show in town! Every Sunday.) 

Also, check out V Wine Lounge, where the vibe is so retro you’ll squee. 

By the way, the bus tours are hella fun. I am a tour guide assistant and even from my view (I sit in the bottom of the bus, you’ll be on top — bring sunscreen and hold onto your hats!) it’s a fun and informative 2-and-a-half hour ride. 

Hope to see you there, and let’s go retro! 

The Desert Gay Tourism Guild shares its reasons why Palm Springs is a treasure.

Sunny weather year-round

The pool at Ingleside Estate on a clear sunny day with white lounge chairs and umbrellas surrounding it

The weather in Palm Springs is unmatched. Photo courtesy of Ingleside Estate

With over 300 days of sunshine a year, it’s a perfect desert escape — ideal for poolside lounging or scenic hikes, no matter the season.

A welcoming LGBTQ+ community

Inside the LGBTQ+ History & Archives of the Desert. Photo courtesy of the LGBTQ+ History & Archives

Palm Springs is one of the most LGBTQ+-friendly cities in the U.S., with a city council that’s majority LGBTQ+ and an atmosphere of celebration and inclusion.

Iconic resorts and clothing-optional stays

A statue of a man sitting down in the courtyard at INNdulge Palm Springs gay men's resort in Palm Springs, California

INNdulge has art and statues everywhere. Photo courtesy of INNdulge

From stylish boutique hotels to men-only, clothing-optional resorts, Palm Springs offers unique stays that blend comfort, freedom, and fun.

Legendary nightlife and drag shows

Drag brunches are a Palm Springs staple. Courtesy photo

Whether it’s a high-energy dance floor, a classy cocktail lounge, or a dazzling drag brunch at places like Toucans or Oscar’s, the nightlife sparkles with queer magic.

Modernist paradise

The colorful front entrance to The Triangle Inn

The Triangle Inn is a midcentury-modern gay men’s clothing-optional hotel. Photo courtesy of Triangle Inn

Palm Springs is a mid-century modern dreamscape. Lovers of design, architecture, and retro glam flock here for Modernism Week and Instagram-worthy backdrops.

The annual events are everything

Hundreds of women in the audience at a concert at The Dinah in Palm Springs

The crowd at The Dinah. Photo courtesy of Visit Palm Springs

From Palm Springs Pride to The White Party, Leather Pride, and Dinah Shore Weekend, the calendar is packed with can’t-miss queer festivals.

Art, culture, and queer history

You could spend hours walking around the Palm Springs Art Museum. Photo courtesy of Visit Palm Springs

Home to fabulous art galleries, the Palm Springs Art Museum, and deep LGBTQ+ roots — including historic hideaways of icons like Rock Hudson and Liberace.

Nature + nude hikes = yes please

Palm trees and rocks against a blue sky in Indian Canyons in Palm Springs, California

A hike in Indian Canyons is always a good idea. Photo courtesy of Visit Palm Springs

Surrounded by stunning natural beauty, like the Indian Canyons, Joshua Tree, and Mount San Jacinto, it’s a paradise for hiking, exploring, and even stripping down in the right spots.

Spa vibes and wellness escapes

A view from above of the Santiago Resort's spa and orange and red striped umbrellas

The Santiago’s pool and spa area is swimsuit optional. Photo courtesy of The Santiago

Rejuvenate with massages, mineral baths, and poolside relaxation. The desert energy and wellness culture are perfect for self-care and connection.

It feels like home — just gayer

People wearing turquoise shirts carry a large rainbow flag down a palm tree lined street in Palm Springs

Palm Springs Pride is a colorful event. Photo credit: Arthur Coleman

The warmth here isn’t just from the sun. Palm Springs is a queer sanctuary where you can truly be yourself, whether you’re here for a weekend or staying forever.