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10 Reasons Why LGBTQ+ Travelers Love Palm Springs

The Desert Gay Tourism Guild shares its reasons why Palm Springs is a treasure.

Sunny weather year-round

The pool at Ingleside Estate on a clear sunny day with white lounge chairs and umbrellas surrounding it

The weather in Palm Springs is unmatched. Photo courtesy of Ingleside Estate

With over 300 days of sunshine a year, it’s a perfect desert escape — ideal for poolside lounging or scenic hikes, no matter the season.

A welcoming LGBTQ+ community

Inside the LGBTQ+ History & Archives of the Desert. Photo courtesy of the LGBTQ+ History & Archives

Palm Springs is one of the most LGBTQ+-friendly cities in the U.S., with a city council that’s majority LGBTQ+ and an atmosphere of celebration and inclusion.

Iconic resorts and clothing-optional stays

A statue of a man sitting down in the courtyard at INNdulge Palm Springs gay men's resort in Palm Springs, California

INNdulge has art and statues everywhere. Photo courtesy of INNdulge

From stylish boutique hotels to men-only, clothing-optional resorts, Palm Springs offers unique stays that blend comfort, freedom, and fun.

Legendary nightlife and drag shows

Drag brunches are a Palm Springs staple. Courtesy photo

Whether it’s a high-energy dance floor, a classy cocktail lounge, or a dazzling drag brunch at places like Toucans or Oscar’s, the nightlife sparkles with queer magic.

Modernist paradise

The colorful front entrance to The Triangle Inn

The Triangle Inn is a midcentury-modern gay men’s clothing-optional hotel. Photo courtesy of Triangle Inn

Palm Springs is a mid-century modern dreamscape. Lovers of design, architecture, and retro glam flock here for Modernism Week and Instagram-worthy backdrops.

The annual events are everything

Hundreds of women in the audience at a concert at The Dinah in Palm Springs

The crowd at The Dinah. Photo courtesy of Visit Palm Springs

From Palm Springs Pride to The White Party, Leather Pride, and Dinah Shore Weekend, the calendar is packed with can’t-miss queer festivals.

Art, culture, and queer history

You could spend hours walking around the Palm Springs Art Museum. Photo courtesy of Visit Palm Springs

Home to fabulous art galleries, the Palm Springs Art Museum, and deep LGBTQ+ roots — including historic hideaways of icons like Rock Hudson and Liberace.

Nature + nude hikes = yes please

Palm trees and rocks against a blue sky in Indian Canyons in Palm Springs, California

A hike in Indian Canyons is always a good idea. Photo courtesy of Visit Palm Springs

Surrounded by stunning natural beauty, like the Indian Canyons, Joshua Tree, and Mount San Jacinto, it’s a paradise for hiking, exploring, and even stripping down in the right spots.

Spa vibes and wellness escapes

A view from above of the Santiago Resort's spa and orange and red striped umbrellas

The Santiago’s pool and spa area is swimsuit optional. Photo courtesy of The Santiago

Rejuvenate with massages, mineral baths, and poolside relaxation. The desert energy and wellness culture are perfect for self-care and connection.

It feels like home — just gayer

People wearing turquoise shirts carry a large rainbow flag down a palm tree lined street in Palm Springs

Palm Springs Pride is a colorful event. Photo credit: Arthur Coleman

The warmth here isn’t just from the sun. Palm Springs is a queer sanctuary where you can truly be yourself, whether you’re here for a weekend or staying forever.

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June Is Bustin’ Out All Over

First, I regret the announcements: Not quite ready to take the plunge, Splash House has been rescheduled for August; Pride will happen in November. I know! I’m verklempt too. However, there’s still an awful lot of fun to be had this June in Palm Springs. And I hear they’ll be back soon.

Oh, before we get to events, it’s good to mention that we’ve got a few specials going on. Each boutique hotel has a different vibe and their own brand of swagger. Make sure to check them out here.

Okay. June. Planned events, then some build-your-own adventures. Let’s go!

Special Events

June 22-28 – At the top of the list is Palm Springs Short Film Festival. Per Variety, “Palm Springs Shortfest will be the first film festival of 2021 in California to hold all of its screenings in-theater when the event takes place at the Camelot Theatres (aka Palm Springs Cultural Center). Check them out too.

June 17th – Cast & Crew screening of Palm Springs Women in Film & Television’s two short films, “Accidental Date” and “Aftermath.” 6pm reception, 7pm screening followed by a Q&A for both films. Camelot Theater (PS Cultural Center) in Palm Springs.

Oscars – they keep adding events (yay!), so here’s what’s listed as of this writing. Check the link to see if there are additions.

  • Melissa Manchester @ Oscars June 17 & 18
  • Gunhild Carling @ Oscars June 10 5:30 & 9:30, Sweden’s Queen of Swing. Famous for playing trombone, she also plays bagpipes, trumpet, recorder, string instruments and will often play them all in one song, sometimes casually breaking into a tap dance or singing.

Four Twenty Bank and Lounge – The dispensary, lounge, and entertainment venue is located on Palm Canyon and Baristo (this is important, used to be at 777 Palm Canyon). They’ve got a great stage, but check their calendar. There was a Bowie tribute band and a Journey tribute band scheduled when I checked a day ago, but they’re gone, and others added. Things are still coming together on their line-up, but the Lounge is still pretty badass.

PS Underground: Book well in advance; these are the hottest shows in town. Ticketing links below.

  • June 11:  IMAGINE. A multiple course journey of music and food. “What would it feel like to climb into music and let it tantalize your every sense?”
  • June 13: GOSPEL –  a multiple course Sunday brunch with fantastic food and toe-tapping, hand clapping gospel music from the band onstage.
  • June 18: ENIGMA – a puzzling or inexplicable experience or occurrence. “Things are not always as they seem as we navigate through this feast for all senses. …an over-the-top unexplainable out-of-the-box immersive dinner experience.”
  • June 25: LIGHT – “Wear white and bring to the table an open mind and a sense of adventure. Prepare yourselves for an evening of the truly unexpected.
  • June 27: OVATION – A jazzed up Sunday Brunch, “Surprise performers and musicians…free-flowing, bubbly and Bloody Mary’s are included.

On-Going Events

I’m recycling some of these from last month because, FUN! Once again, an asterisk denotes that I have been and it’s fabulous.

*Thursday afternoons are free at Palm Springs Art Museum from 5-7 p.m. Make a reservation.

Saturdays: Saturday Night Flight at PS Air Bar.”Boarding time”  5 p.m.

Wine tastings at Bouschet. They keep adding dates so I’m just linking to their website. Also, their California Caesar is bowl-licking good (the fancy bowl makes it hard, though), and a friend likes their macaroni salad so much he asked for the recipe.

Saturdays: Not Your Grandma’s Bingo at Chill Bar from 12-2 p.m. The name says it all.

*Sundays: Palm Springs Drag Brunch, with Rosemary Galore and her queenly court at Roly China Fusion.

*Saturdays and Sundays – I have written about Palm Springs magic before, but Crystal Fantasy is our go-to guide for crystals, sage, tarot cards, and all things material to interact with or distract the spiritual realm. Saturday and Sundays they have a Psychic/Healing Arts Fair, where you pick your psychic (or did they pick you, hmmm?). Check the website for times and the cool classes they have during the week.

*Sundays: It’s the Pro-Jazz Jam from 2-5 p.m. at Palm Canyon Roadhouse. It’s all the best players in the Coachella Valley led by solid jazz musician, Mikale Karr.

And, drumroll please, the most raucous dance party in Palm Springs is back! It’s Oscar’s T-Dance, Sunday’s from 4-8 pm. You can hear it blocks away. Mostly gay men, but I’ve been and it was a gas!

Day-Time Activities

*Like Mid-Mod? Or the architecturally significant homes of the stars? Palm Springs Life has a self-guided tour app. It’s a great fix as we wait for tours to restart, and Modernism Week to return.

*CannaBUS Express Tours, there’s no other like it. Any canna-curiosity you might have will be replaced with knowledge from their Extreme Green Team. BONUS: it’s hella-fun.

If you’re staying in a boutique hotel, there’s a good chance there’s work by a local artist hanging on a wall, or sitting on a table. That’s because creativity is off-the-charts flowing unlike the rain in Palm Springs. Art has many expressions, and at the indoor Mojave Flea Trading Post, artists and crafters of every ilk come together in a 10,000 sq. ft. marketplace of makers & merchants from Joshua Tree, the Coachella Valley, and beyond.

And guys, check this out: you can take a ride in an old warbird at Palm Springs Air Museum! The Warbird Ride has six options: C-47 Skytrain, T-28 Trojan, PT-17 Stearman, P-51 Mustang and the T-33 Shooting Star Jet.  While you’re there, make sure to take a tour of the *Palm Springs Air Museum. It’s cooler than you might think.

That’s it for events, but I’m super excited to play show and tell with all of the fun and funky spots for your Instagram page. I found some fabulous filters, so I used them. Hope you likey. It’s my first try. You’ll find out why this chair sits on a pedestal.

As always, please shop and stay at locally-owned businesses. And if you go to any of our hotels or enjoy our recommendations, please be sure to tag us with your photos on IG, or @palmspringspreferredsmallhotel (yeah, it’s a lot to type, but we appreciate it!)  #PSPSH

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We’re SO Gay

“Too much of a good thing is wonderful.” — Liberace

When you Google “best gay cities,” my results did not include one single listicle mentioning Palm Springs. What? People, our entire city council is LGBTQIA, and from Wikipedia’s entry for Gay Village: “An estimated 33 to 50 percent of Palm Springs, California, are gay male or other parts of the LGBTQ community; this statistic makes them the largest percentage community in the US.”

In 2016, Palm Springs received a final score of 100 points in the Human Rights Campaign’s Municipal Equality Index Scorecard. Our city exceeded the highest possible final score of 100 with a raw score of 109, and we’ve kept that score through their last report of 2020.

Speaking of the ’20s, 100 years ago, Palm Springs began its journey as a playground for celebrities and the LGBTQ+ community thanks to Dr. Florilla White and her sister Cornelia. The two “independent and eccentric women” (code: lesbian) purchased the Palm Springs Hotel and spiffed it up a bit. Rudolph Valentino spent his second honeymoon there (it was escandalo!), and Greta Garbo demanded the premiere of Camille be held at the new Plaza Theater while she stayed at the hotel. Side note: if it weren’t for the founding mothers of Palm Springs (the White Sisters, Nellie Coffman, Lois Kellog —she was a wild one! — and Pearl McCallum McManus), it might still be a dusty little town. And the Cahuilla likely wouldn’t be where they are today without the 1950s all-women tribal council. Historically, in Palm Springs, men beat the drum of awareness while the women quietly made history. Sisters, amirite?

Liberace.

Palm Springs is so gay Liberace, Rock Hudson, Tab Hunter, Barry Manilow and gay icons Cher and Carol Channing had/have homes here. Not to mention the other “maybe they were, maybe there weren’t” plethora of stars. Although there is speculation, it doesn’t really matter, because Palm Springs has always offered personal privacy. No one is getting “outed” if they don’t want to be out.

Courtesy of CV Independent

In the 1980s, two anti-gay and AIDS-related bills were soundly trounced and, according to a 2017 article in Palm Springs Life, in 1991 club owner Gloria Green opened the first gay bar on Arenas Road, A Streetbar Named Desire (now known as Streetbar). I qualify that with the Palm Springs Life article because most accounts attribute the bar to Dick Haskamp and Hank Morgan, who apparently purchased it in the same year. So something is a little sketchy about the origins — however, Arenas would soon build up to become an all-gay city block with clubs and stores catering to gay men.

Pride was first celebrated in Palm Springs with a showcase called Sizzle. It wasn’t well received or advertised, and Sizzle fizzled out until 1992. By 1997, The Desert Sun estimated 30,000 people watched the (now) Pride parade.

Our gayness isn’t limited to Arenas. Oscar’s is alive almost every night with gay-leaning entertainment and Sundays is all about celebrating your gayness at the T-Dance. You can hear the party from blocks away.

We have so many drag queens they could hold court for an entire generation of royals, and they’re damn fine. Late night entertainment at The Copa and Toucans include long-running drag shows that pack the rooms, and drag brunches abound in our exceptionally inviting cozy town.

The San Francisco establishment of transgender performers AsiaSF chose Palm Springs as its second home. They opened just before the pandemic, and I’m told will reopen again in November — maybe December — of this year. I went to the opening in early 2020 (before you know what): these ladies are hot AF.

Some of the finest dining in Palm Springs is brought to you by gay restaurateurs. Roly China Fusion, Tropicale, Eight4Nine, Trio, PS Underground (an exciting take on dinner theater), The Purple Room (supper club), and 533 Viet Fusion to name just a few not on Arenas.

Desert Rose Playhouse is the one and only LGBTQ theater company and venue in the Coachella Valley. Now in Palm Springs proper at the old Zelda’s Nightclub space, they produce, support and elevate LGBTQ stories, actors, playwrights, and musicians. I have never been disappointed by their productions. So far this year I have seen The Great American Trailer Park Musical and Rocky Horror, and have tickets to see Hedwig and the Angry Inch. It’s a great space with a great vibe and the shows are delicious.

We have an LGBTQ+ community center, PFLAG (for supporters), and a retirement community for gays called Stonewall Gardens. We have two gay radio stations, the Gay Desert Guide, and the Palm Springs Cultural Center, with a mixture of artsy blockbusters and showcasing gay-themed films.

If you check out our website (already sorted for you!), you’ll find we have 11 resort hotels catering to gay men, some clothing optional. The Warm Sands area is generously dotted with gay boutique hotels.

One of my favorite things that hasn’t yet returned in the pandemic is our star drag queen Bella da Ball (aka Brian Wanzek) reading stories to kids at the Palm Springs Library. Bella even has her own star on our Walk of Stars.

There’s DAP, Desert AIDS Project, a terrific medical establishment that not only caters to gays living with AIDS but also administers to MediCal patients. I was on MediCal for a bit and they provide stellar care (I was sad when my insurance switched). They also run the resale stores Revivals which have terrific bargains on gently-used items, and some brand-new stuff too. Profits benefit DAP.

And of course there is the big event, Palm Springs Pride.

Some “must” events sent to me by Bella Da Ball:

November 1, 6 to 7 p.m.: George Zander Candlelight Vigil and March, 101 N. Museum Dr.

Beginning at the new downtown park (Museum Way and Museum Drive), this rally and march is in honor of George Zander. Six years ago to the day, George and Chris Zander were attacked in downtown Palm Springs, resulting in George’s death on December 10, 2015. This remembrance of George’s life keeps his memory alive, so that no other individual falls victim to a crime of hate.

November 7, 5 to 10 p.m.: Effen Vodka main stage, near the Hyatt Hotel on North Palm Canyon Drive. Party. Huge stage. Special video screens.

But wait, there’s even more eye candy than the parade! On November 5 and 6, enjoy the West Coast premiere of Global Rainbow by American artist Yvette Mattern. Specially designed lasers project a large-scale abstraction of a natural rainbow (the same colors in Gilbert Baker’s rainbow flag) celebrating the diverse LGBTQ+ communities and symbolizing hope and peace. Beamed high above Palm Canyon Drive at Amado Road, as far as the eye can see, until finally diminishing to a colorful glow over South Palm Canyon.  

Hitting the stage on November 5:

5:30 p.m. — Charles Herrera 

6 p.m. — Steven Michael’s Dance Machine, dancers, flaggers, drag

6:15 p.m. — Jason Stuart

6:30 p.m. — Shannon 

7:15 p.m. — Sassy Ross

7:30 p.m. — Jeanie Tracy

8 p.m. — Jody Watley

8:45 p.m. — The Perry Twins

The unadulterated joy and magic the Palm Springs LGBTQ+ community brings to our little town is unparalleled. That’s right, I said it: unparalleled.

Not gay? No one cares, we are a mecca for all who want to be included…unless you’re homophobic, then according to the website Abodo, you should vacation in Buffalo, New York.

See you at Pride!

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Big Gay BBQ And June Pride

While Palm Springs’ official Pride weekend is in November, we still like to celebrate in June when the rest of the world does, so we throw a Big Gay BBQ on Saturday, June 14 and Sunday, June 15. You could even come on Friday to pre-party ahead of the big event, and stay until Monday to recover. 

Find your stay

Everyone’s got a vibe they’re trying to create when they go on a vacation. Click here for a quick look (and photos!) of Palm Springs boutique hotels that cater to gay men. I’ve also given you a brief description below. (I have visited six of the ones listed, and each one had its own very cool vibe. Almost all of them offer a light breakfast, and some provide lunch as well.) 

Santiago Resort — Clothing-optional gay men’s resort with gardens and all-day sun.

INNdulge Palm Springs — Legendary gay men’s resort with 24-hour heated pool.

Vista Grande Resort — Historic, lush, and vibe-rich gay resort for men.

The Hacienda at Warm Sands — Award-winning service, pools, and private comfort.

Descanso Resort — A stunning mid-century modern retreat for men.

Triangle Inn Palm Springs — Intimate resort with tropical gardens and spa.

Twin Palms Resort — Contemporary style and vibrant communal spaces.

Casa Oliver — Luxury, design-forward space for the stylish gay traveler.

Canyon Club Hotel — Close to nightlife, with spa and garden-style pool.

Desert Paradise Resort Hotel — Saltwater pool and peaceful setting in Warm Sands.

El Mirasol Villas — Lush gardens, two pools, 10-man spa, blending Old Hollywood charm with modern comfort.

Now that that’s settled, you need to decide what to do. I’ve got some help for you there, but you might as well have a coffee and talk it over. These spots will come in handy over the weekend anyway:

Ernest Coffee — Stumptown roasts and an outdoor patio.

Koffi — Local chain with excellent house-roasted brews. There are three in Palm Springs.

Cafe La Jefa — Chic Latin-owned coffee shop with healthy bites.

Cafe Mon Amour — Sweet French cafe and bakery on Palm Canyon. 

Gre Records and Coffee — If you love vinyl (LPs baby) you can have a cup of joe and browse their selection.

Cartel Coffee — Up near Arrive hotel, just north of the design district.

Suggested itinerary for Friday night:

Check into your hotel and then check out these great events.

7 p.m.: It’s Me, Charlie — Joined by the legendary Michael Orland (renowned pianist and associate musical director of American Idol), Charlie brings his signature charm, wit, and powerhouse voice to a dynamic setlist spanning pop, blues, and Broadway, all delivered with a dazzling cabaret flair. At Revolution Stage Company, 611 S. Palm Canyon Drive. Full Bar.

9 p.m.: Dinner at Blackbook (kitchen open until midnight), 315 E Arenas Rd. 

10:30 p.m. – Visit Tool Shed, 600 E Sunny Dunes Rd., Palm Springs’ original leather/Levi gay bar.

Midnight: Dance at Reforma (Gasolina) or Hunters, or Chill Bar, where you can enjoy iconic Arenas Road views.

Saturday

Have a morning of relaxation and exploration. Grab a coffee or mimosa at Grand Central. Have a bite to eat as well. Great grilled cheese sandwich if that’s your thing.

Drag brunches:

Shiz vs Hogwarts at Reforma — Not just your usual drag show, these are themed drag shows. This one, I believe, has a Shakira emcee.

Oscar’s Bitchiest Brunch — One of the oldest and longest running drag shows in Palm Springs.

Things to do:

Palm Springs Art Museum — “To Move Toward the Limits of Living: LGBTQ+ Works from the Collection.” This ongoing exhibition features 45 works by 19 artists, including notable figures like Mark Bradford, Nan Goldin, Jim Isermann, Catherine Opie, and Wolfgang Tillmans. It explores themes of identity, marginalization, and resilience, highlighting how LGBTQ+ artists have navigated and responded to experiences of exclusion.

Or, you can relax by the pool at your resort. Because up next is…

Big Gay BBQ (Day 1), from 3 to 10 p.m. Arenas District, Food, music, community celebration in the heart of the gay district.

After 10 p.m.:

Hunters – Top DJs, strong drinks, packed dance floor.

Chill Bar – Outdoor patios, themed parties, and go-go dancers.

Toucans Tiki Lounge — Polynesian-themed, drag shows and lively crowd.

Bunker — Oscar’s Gay Men Only area

Evening Citizen — Speakeasy “on” Arenas. Make a reservation.

Sunday

Morning – Brunch and pool time. Check out a drag show at Chill Bar’s Amazing Sundays or grab breakfast at FARM, L’Atelier, or Sonny’s on Arenas.

At 3 p.m. it’s back to the Big Gay BBQ (Day 2) until 7 p.m.

After 7 p.m.

Oscar’s — Cabaret or themed shows depending on schedule.

Tool Shed — Chill with locals and travelers alike.

Hunters — Linger with the dance crowd closing the weekend.

Monday morning

Breakfast options before departure include Wilma & Frieda’s (famous for comfort food and churro waffles); Billy Reed’s (it’s on your way out of town, and some say the breakfasts are the best — very old school, a bit Midwest in decor); and Boozehounds (did you bring your puppers? Great place to go!).

Grab a last coffee at Ernest or Koffi before hitting the road or get some chips for munching when you leave Billy Reed’s.

Have a wonderful Pride Month, and guess what? We get to do it again even bigger in November!

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